The month of romance is here.
Are you the one who thinks that you are destined to live a single life? Or you have has seve ral complicated relationships or endured the pain of heartbreak, or learned to avoid relationships to lead a comfortable life.
Some people prefer to live without a partner, and some build a wall around them to protect themselves from future hurt. These two are entirely different things. When you tell yourself that you will never find true love or the right relationship, The universe responds in that frequency; you start manifesting bad dates or the people who mistreat you. All these beliefs completely contradict your desires. You have to change your thoughts and focus on your feelings or even how you speak about men, love, and relationships. It is essential to notice your thoughts and beliefs and take ownership of their power to manifest. When you change your inner world and become a better version of yourself and start loving yourself, you will manifest and what you truly desire in your life. Working on your shadow work is the journey of a Lifetime, and awareness is the first step towards it.
Here’s the quick guide to finding your Love blocks and how to clear them.
Lack of Self Love
Feeling unlovable or undeserving of love is the most common culprit in preventing a true loving partnership from manifesting. You had to have a great relationship with yourself before you can have one with someone else.
The only cure to feeling unlovable is to shift your focus on self-acceptance. That means accepting yourself as you are. Try this simple exercise, take a look in the mirror, and say to yourself that you are worthy of all the love you keep trying to give everyone.
Scared of getting hurt.
The fear of getting your heart broken often gets in the way of manifesting love. There’s always a certain amount of risk involved in getting close to someone, whether it is a romantic relationship or friendship. There’s never an assurance that someone will love you or like you forever. And if you are willing to find true love, you must take the chance.
You are afraid of Being Vulnerable.
When it comes to finding a relationship, all we carve for is finding someone to see us for who we really are. It is an explicit feeling. Isn’t it?
You don’t have to pretend to be anyone or to worry that you’ll scare someone away.
The realization here is that you have to believe that the world we live in is simply a mirror to our inner world. Stop withholding people and watch how they respond. We all crave love and authenticity, and you will be rewarded with it when you’re brave enough to offer it yourself.
Unhealthy past Relationships
If you’ve been broken-hearted in the past, then you might be at risk of blocking yourself from receiving love because you’re too scared with the idea that it will happen again. The pain lingers in your heart, and it creates a ‘heart wall’ or block around it.
The cure is that you need to heal and cut cords from your past relationships; you have to learn how to love yourself and have faith that your next relationship will be the best.
You can also work on these things to clear energetic blocks around the heart:
- Do yoga.
- Recite the Sanskrit mantra- OM MANI PADME HUM. Repeat this mantra during your meditation practices
- Keep crystals like Rose quartz or Rhodochrosite.
- Spend time with friends, family, and those you love.
- Practice gratitude daily.
- Listen to your heart.
A healthy relationship feels natural. Clearing your inner blocks and aligning your life with your dream relationship doesn’t have to take years. The challenging work we have to do is on yourselves; you need to learn how to be happy and content, feel your self-worth, and release the old patterns and beliefs.
And most importantly, Love Yourself.
May you all find the kind of Love that you are looking for.